Pull it out so they can see how little it is. Yes, I have discussed wmaf in depth in prior posts on this blog which I unfortunately had to take down when tumblr changed its policies since they were combined with some wmaf porn. For black men, we can easier hide our self esteem behind our physical dominance in ways the Asian man cannot. This is why I encourage black women to look at the big picture more in ways to motivate us. I reply promptly to almost everyone who uses the envelop button. I very rarely reply to personal messages. My honest take on this is that you are really playing with fire here. As to your situation, black men, especially working class black men, are very sensitive to sleights to our manhood. So you might want to see if the husband is down first. From your brief anecdote, I suspect he is not.
I get so fucking annoyed by it. I know Black women who have dated white men, white men who were surprised to find that—. Fuck all the white dudes who do this. Fuck all the white dudes and you know what?
While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him.